Posts Tagged: family life

A MIND SWITCH

I so, so wish our minds were like our eyes, that we could close them. Who hasn’t been there: desperately fatigued and aching for sleep, but unable to drift off as horrid images sparked from our days parade over and

A MIND SWITCH

I so, so wish our minds were like our eyes, that we could close them. Who hasn’t been there: desperately fatigued and aching for sleep, but unable to drift off as horrid images sparked from our days parade over and

jetski

JET SKIS

I could do it. If I really wanted to, I could. A jet ski costs as much as a middle-class car. Way less than some fancy graduate degree from Dalhousie. Much, much less. I could, if I wanted to, buy

jetski

JET SKIS

I could do it. If I really wanted to, I could. A jet ski costs as much as a middle-class car. Way less than some fancy graduate degree from Dalhousie. Much, much less. I could, if I wanted to, buy

COME, AS I WERE

I was five months pregnant when my father-in-law died. I didn’t care, and I didn’t shed a tear for him. He had shown courtesy to me during the long years of our marriage, and not much else. My mother says

COME, AS I WERE

I was five months pregnant when my father-in-law died. I didn’t care, and I didn’t shed a tear for him. He had shown courtesy to me during the long years of our marriage, and not much else. My mother says

INSANE JEALOUSY

An overview of  parenting problems floating around: children don’t eat vegetables; sibling rivalry; grandparents’ interference; sex down the drain after kids; other peoples’ children; breastfeeding; adoption… There are reams of advice, tips and articles out there on practically any problem

INSANE JEALOUSY

An overview of  parenting problems floating around: children don’t eat vegetables; sibling rivalry; grandparents’ interference; sex down the drain after kids; other peoples’ children; breastfeeding; adoption… There are reams of advice, tips and articles out there on practically any problem

THANK YOU, PORN INDUSTRY

Our family arrived late to advanced communication technology, and it is only in the past few days that we began video chatting. And we are happy. The world is good. Somewhere, during my insomniac internet perambulations, I remember reading that

THANK YOU, PORN INDUSTRY

Our family arrived late to advanced communication technology, and it is only in the past few days that we began video chatting. And we are happy. The world is good. Somewhere, during my insomniac internet perambulations, I remember reading that

SO WHAT ARE WE DOING HERE?

One of the thorniest contradictions of daily immigrant life is talking about Back Home to the children. On the one hand, I obviously want my children to retain the strong attachment to my mother country that I have. I want them

SO WHAT ARE WE DOING HERE?

One of the thorniest contradictions of daily immigrant life is talking about Back Home to the children. On the one hand, I obviously want my children to retain the strong attachment to my mother country that I have. I want them

SHE

One of the times I miss her most is when I am watching movies. This is, of course, apart from all the other times when I miss her so much:  after I’ve spent time with friends and need her to

SHE

One of the times I miss her most is when I am watching movies. This is, of course, apart from all the other times when I miss her so much:  after I’ve spent time with friends and need her to

LET US THINK THIS THROUGH TOGETHER

1-Get Married 2- Have Children (more than one, less than three) These two items can be considered as the agenda for any young (middle-class) woman, anywhere the the world. It is true that many will not follow this agenda, willingly

LET US THINK THIS THROUGH TOGETHER

1-Get Married 2- Have Children (more than one, less than three) These two items can be considered as the agenda for any young (middle-class) woman, anywhere the the world. It is true that many will not follow this agenda, willingly

THEM AND US

Two families trooped into the elevator in our building. Their dad was holding a snowy, wet snowboard. Ours was holding a coffee cup. Their mum was wearing plasticy water-proof clothes- boots and pants and jacket. I was holding a Starbuck’s

THEM AND US

Two families trooped into the elevator in our building. Their dad was holding a snowy, wet snowboard. Ours was holding a coffee cup. Their mum was wearing plasticy water-proof clothes- boots and pants and jacket. I was holding a Starbuck’s

BABIES: DO NOT WANT

So, I had some families over, during the weekend, and yes, by families, I mean children too. There were five-year olds, a three-year old, and a couple of baby twins, five months old.  The food was delicious, if I do say

BABIES: DO NOT WANT

So, I had some families over, during the weekend, and yes, by families, I mean children too. There were five-year olds, a three-year old, and a couple of baby twins, five months old.  The food was delicious, if I do say